Tuesday, January 3, 2017

Monday Musings (on Tuesday)

No Spenduary
I began on Sunday, with the beginning of the month.  Saturday, I went out and indulged for the very last time in one of my favorite items - a Very Berry Refresher from Starbucks.  I made certain that I got a Venti.  I took it to work with me, and I nursed it all day long!  I drank some before I went in, and then put it in my thermal cup, in the fridge at work, where I knew it would stay cold and I could take a sip now and again as the day went on!  Not very dignified, I know, but hey, why not?  I love cold water with lots of ice, so once I finished off my drink, I refilled it with water a couple of times. 

Star Wars Rogue One
I went to see the new Star Wars movie last week.  I was hoping to pay homage to Carrie Fisher.  As I watched the movie, I was confused about the plot of the movie. No Carrie Fisher, no Mark Hamill, no Kai Loren.  And there was Darth Vader and the Death Star.  Confused as all get out, I left the movie confused and unsatisfied.  As I was driving home with the kids I made the comment "Really?  The Empire is still trying to make the Death Star operational?  You think they would have learned a long time ago to give that up."

"Mom" laughed the kids... "This wasn't the Eighth movie in the series.  This was basically 3 and 1/2.  It was set after episode 3, but before the one where Luke makes his appearance."

OK, so now that I know that, I need to go back and see the movie again.  I might appreciate it more now that I know the premise!

A Gentleman's Guide to Love and Murder
One of the family gifts we gave our kids for Christmas was tickets to go see A Gentleman's Guide to Love and Murder at the Hippodrome.  We had a marvelous time, the show was fantastic, and the actors were absolutely amazing.  I'm so glad we went! Good golly, how much I love theater!  I've still got that happy buzz going!



Funemployed
Daughter was given this game for Christmas by one of her friends.  It's an absolute hoot!  It's like Apples for Apples, but with a really fun twist.  The "Hiring Coordinator"  (think HR person)  puts down the title of a job.  Each player is given 4 qualifications for their resume.  Ten extra qualifications are then laid down.   You are given one minute to swap out qualifications and build your resume.  At the end of a minute, you get to present your case as to why you are the most qualified person for the position given the skills on your resume.  We laughed so hard we cried when we played this game!  It was great!



Facebook Quiz
I don't normally take Facebook quizzes, but I couldn't pass this one up.  It's called "What is Waiting for You in 2017?"  I pasted my results below.  I'm curious to see how this plays out.  Maybe I should look at this instead of making a list of resolutions for the year?  Yeah, right.  Anyway, here is what is going to happen to me this year:
January: A Road Trip  (In the middle of winter?)
February: Time With Family  (Do we see a massive snowstorm on the horizon?)
March: A Wedding
April: A New Family Member
May: A New Hobby
June: A Vacation
July: Money
August: A Change
September: A Surprise Visit
October: A New Car
November: A Dream House
December: A One of a Kind Party

Hmmm.... we'll see what happens.  I'm assuming that I win the lottery in July, and decide to move somewhere else, ditch the mini-van for a new something and buy a dream house.  I'm going to have to keep track of this one and see how it goes this year!  (Should I add this list to my 2017 Goals and Resolutions list?  Or keep it in my Monday Musings.... decisions, decisions, decisions)

Enjoy your week!

Monday, January 2, 2017

2017 Resolutions

Resolutions, resolutions.  We all make them, but how many of them do we keep?  I've been keeping an online list of my resolutions this year, and it has kept me honest.  While I not have kept all of my resolutions, I have completed a significant number of them!  I read an article recently that said that there are several reasons we don't keep our resolutions.  The two that stuck with me the most are

1) Making your resolutions a year long process: something you work on every day.
2) Having an accountability buddy: someone close to you to whom you have to report.

So, by keeping this list for an entire year and checking back in on it monthly, I am ensuring that it does become a year long process.  Also, by making this list public, I am ensuring that I have several accountability buddies!

(If you'd like to read the entire article, you can find it here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/wired-success/201312/why-we-dont-keep-our-new-years-resolutions)


So, having said all of that, here's this year's mix of goals and resolutions for 2017!

1) Complete 12 Home Improvement projects around the house this year.
Do I have specific things I'd like to accomplish?  Yes.  Am I going to list them?  NO.  Last year, we were confounded by unexpected home repairs.  I am going to accomplish one home improvement project each month of this year.  Heaven knows, there's enough stuff that needs to be done in our house!  If I made a list of everything that needs to be done, I think it would depress ALL of us.  So, I'm going to limit it to 12 projects.  12 things that can be accomplished with the skills or materials or money we have on hand.  At the end of the year, I'll share the master list of home improvements... and we'll see how many of them I've actually knocked off!

2) Lose a few more inches around my waist.
Last year, my goal was to lose 3 inches.  I nailed it!  According to the guidelines for women that I've been able to find, the healthiest waist circumference is between 32" and 35".  Losing a few more inches would put me safely into the middle of that spectrum.  Can I do it?  Well, I'm determined. It might mean that I need to sign up for a Pilates class, though.  I'll do whatever it takes!  I've come so far at this point, I'm NOT looking back!  This does mean that I will continue to exercise on a regular basis.  Again, after 2 years of making this my focus, I don't see this going away.  I WILL NOT stop going to the gym and exercising.  As the annoying commercial says, "Just Do It". 

3) Get away with my husband - just the two of us - twice over the next year.
I don't know where we're going to go, but we need to spend some time together, without our children along.  Where are we going to go?  Who knows?  But a couple of weekends away without any of our grown children around sounds like a great idea!  (It's much harder to do with grown kids in the house than you think it would be!)

4) Lenten Cleaning Challenge
Last year's resolution was to get rid of 23 things a week. Boy howdy, did I clean up!  Stuff is gone, and the house is cleaner. But, there's still room for improvement.  I've got a long way to go in order to get this house truly clean.  But instead of setting the bar at 23 things a week, I'm setting it differently this year.  There's a challenge out there that I found to get rid of 40 bags of crap during the 40 days of Lent.  I found it on White House Black Shutters.  I'm pretty sure I've got 40 bags worth of crap laying around here that I can get rid of!  I'm looking forward to narrowing this challenge down from a year long cleaning stint to a 40 day challenge!  It should be great! 

5) Post at least 12 Book Reviews on my Books for Teens Blog
I've fallen behind on posting book reviews, and I need to make myself blog more.  This past year, I started reading more children's fiction.  I am going to shift back to Young Adult fiction this year and will post at least one book review per month.

6) Finish the Hallway Bathroom
It will happen this year.  Middle child is graduating from college and moving back home.  We've got no choice but to get that finished before he graduates.  We also have issues with that toilet.  So, whatever we've managed to save on March 31 is the budget we'll be working with.... with that thought in mind...

7) Participate in the NoSpenduary Challenge
The challenge is not to spend any money outside of the necessities for a month.  Since March 31 is our deadline for saving money to fix the bathroom, I will be holding back on all spending for January, February, and March.  I'll most likely be picking up some extra shifts at work during this time, too.  I really want to have a decent amount of money for us to work with when we sit down and start planning out the budget and meeting with contractors.  *sigh*  I'm both really looking forward to this and really dreading this....

8) Learn Another Language
I took 4 years of Spanish in high school.  After 30 something years, I remember a handful of words.  (Hey, I remember the important ones: Donde esta el bano?  AND  Dos cervezos, por favor!)
I really need to do better.  

9) 100 Things Every Marylander Should Do
Last year, I published a list of 100 Things Every Marylander Should Do Before They Die.  I've done a fair number of them, but not nearly close to all 100.  I am going to knock 12 more of those items off of the list this year.
You can read the original lists here:
100 Things Every Marylander Must Do At Least Once, Pt. 1
100 Things Every Marylander Must Do At Least Once, Pt. 2

10) Finish Daughter's Quilt
She's finishing up at the Community College in May, and will be transferring to a four year school in August.  I have pieced and pinned the quilt - but now I need to quilt it and finish it.  Before August.  (The bigger question here is: Will she go away to school, or will she continue to live at home and commute?  Big decisions need to be made in the next month!)

11) Clean out the Closet and Dresser Drawers in the Master Bedroom
Not just straighten it, but clean it.  I need to go through and get rid of the things I no longer wear, and go through the stash of stuff that I made to sell on Etsy - but never sold.  I need to donate them or give them away or something.  I really need to get everything out of that closet.  I also need to go through the dresser drawers and throw some things away.  This sounds like an easy task - but if it were easy, I wouldn't have had to write it down as a goal, would I?

12) Clean out the little room in the basement and make it usable.
We have a little room in our basement.  When my in-laws lived in the house, my father-in-law used it as an office.  When we moved in, we found a leak in the basement that necessitated the removal of all the drywall, sealing the cinder block wall, and replacing the dry wall.  Now that all of that has been done, we need to address the final issues (cleaning out the last of the stuff we had shoved in the closet, fixing lighting, etc.) and make it into a usable room of some kind.   I had thought of making that into a craft room years ago. We'll see how this plays out, considering the bathroom remodel and some kitchen issues I'd like to address. At the very least, I'd like to make it more presentable...

13) Work on the landscaping in the front yard.
Our landscaping can best be described as "overgrown disaster".  We've pulled two hugely overgrown bushes out - they were higher than the roof on the house.  I want to update the landscaping.  While I might not get the entire front of the house updated, I'd at least like to update the part in front of the master bedroom so that it looks neater and more complimentary to the house.

14) Take at least one class through the American Library Association.
I have several choices, and I need 6 hours of CEU's to renew my teaching certificate.  As long as I've got to take classes, I'm going to see if I can take something that will count towards renewing my teaching certificate in 2019 AND benefit my library.


This promises to be a year of great things!



Friday, December 30, 2016

2016 Resolutions

I didn't accomplish all of my resolutions this year, but I accomplished many of them!  I'm so proud of everything that I did, and tried to do this year.  Like most resolutions, I didn't keep all of them.  I had roadblocks tossed in my way.  You know what?  That's okay.   Life happens, things don't go the way we plan, and we adapt!  It's what happens in life!

Here's the list of goals that I set for myself this year:

1) Remodel the Hallway Bathroom
This is the third year this has been on the list.  I honestly thought it would happen this year.  But, this has been a year when we had a lot of unexpected expenses pop up.  The good news is that we had money set aside for the bathroom.  So, instead of remodeling the bathroom, we fixed other things...
It WILL be fixed next year.  Whatever money we have saved at the end of March will be the budget that we will be working with.  Yes, I'm putting this back on my list of resolutions for 2017.  I want to celebrate when this finally gets finished!
 

2) Improve My Health
This was my challenge for the year, and I believe I have done it!  All told, over the 3 years I've been actively working at losing weight, I've lost 40 pounds.  On average, that's a little over 10 pounds a year.  Not a lot all at once, and not as much as I want, but it is progress.

a) Lose Inches Off My Waist
My goal for the year was to lose a total of three inches.  That took longer than I thought it would! Eight months to lose three inches.  I'm happy to see those inches come off!  For now, I am content.  Those were 3 very hard inches to lose! 


b) Get My Blood Pressure Down into the Normal Range
YES!!  120/60!  No lecture from the doctor this year, instead I got a hearty "Keep up the good work!"
This time last year, my blood pressure was at 140/80.  Danger, Will Robinson, Danger!

c) Go Down at Least One Clothing Size.  

At least one.  The hard work of the last year has paid off!  I bought pants in the regular section of the store!!!!  Even better?  No elastic waist on these babies! I want to lose more.  My waist is still not under the "circumference" guidelines that suggest that women should have a waist measurement less than 35 inches.  Trust me, I'm working on getting that measurement down there!


3) Restart my Vegetable Garden
Due to a very wet spring and a hideous ant problem, no vegetable garden got up and going this year.  I don't know what I'm going to do this next year.  The herb garden is going strong!

4) Learn to Pressure Can
SO, we have a glass top stove.  Pressure canners do not work on a glass top stove because they can't consistently keep the temperature up high enough.  This one will be a wash.  Another epic fail.  If I ever do put in an outdoor kitchen, I'm going to make certain I have a propane or gas stove so that I can pressure can - and I'll be able to do it outside and keep the heat out of the house.

5) Daughter's Quilt
I have pieced it together!  It's sewn! It's pinned!  I want to get it finished before she finishes up at the Community College and transfers on to a 4 year school.

6) Clean Out and Organize the Carport
The kids did this for me when they were all home the weekend after Mother's Day.  Thanks guys!

Even more fun, my husband made this wonderful tool corral last back in October!  It's so nice to have everything organized and no longer piled up on the floor, next to the house. It was a dangerous tripping hazard that had snared us all at least once.

Bonus - there's enough space in that protected area in front of the tool caddy to put in the buckets full of rock salt for the winter!






7) Exercise Consistently
4 or 5 days every week.  Even better, I'm now keeping a hard copy journal with me when I go.  I get to visibly see my progress every time I work out.  It's an excellent motivator!

8) Clean Out 23 Things a Week
Originally, the goal was to clean out 23 things a month.  Then I changed it to 23 things a week.  For the entire 52 weeks of the year, that would have required me to get rid of 1196 things for the year.  I met that goal in May.


As of now, and the last Goodwill run, I have gotten rid of 2,000 things from this house.  Lots and lots of crap. The house is so much cleaner now than it was before.  I have more usable space in the basement.


9) Participate in the NoSpenduary Challenge
I originally found this challenge on the Frugal, Debt Free Life blog.  And I am so glad I did.  The challenge wasn't as easy as I thought it was going to be, but I'm so glad that I did it!  It saved our butts when things broke.  I was attempting to pad the savings account to make a really nice working budget to remodel the bathroom.  That savings was busted as things broke and continued to break all year.  Can I say how glad I was that we had savings to fall back on?  It was a blessing to be able to pay cash to repair things and not to add it all onto a credit card at 19% interest (compounded daily, I believe).

So, what did that budget go for?

Daughter's teeth were fixed.  She had an abscessed tooth early in the year.  This required a root canal and a crown.  NOT a cheap fix, by any means.  Our insurance covered a little - very little - of the cost.  We paid the rest out of pocket.

The van is still running.  Not my favorite car, by any means.  It broke, twice.  I think the next time it breaks we won't fix it.  We'd like to have it last through most of 2017, if possible.  We'd like to have middle child out of school before we think about replacing it.  Ideally, we'd like to have both the younger kids out of college, but I honestly don't think that van is going to last two and a half more years...

The kitchen sink - and the counter underneath had to be replaced.  I'd like to thank Habitat for Humanity for giving us the skills to be able to pull out the sink and slide a new cabinet in place under the old counter top without breaking it.  Granted, we had to call in a plumber to work on the pipes, but he was worth every single penny that we paid....

The upstairs/hallway bathroom - we've got a leaking toilet.  The plumber installed a temporary fix, but the toilet is going to have to be replaced.  Long story there, very long story there.  BUT- we had the cash to pay him for the fix, and we have the cash to replace & install the toilet.  But, I don't want to do it until we can replace the floor, which means we replace the tub and deal with the yellow tile walls.....  I swear, it's like the book "If You Give a Mouse a Cookie".

Dishwasher - died just before Thanksgiving.  New dishwasher installed earlier this month, paid for with cash. 

10) Visit One Place on my Bucket List
Niagara Falls!  We spent time on both the Canadian and U.S. side of the Falls.  I loved Niagara State Park.  If you ever have time to go, make a point of heading to the state park and walking the perimeter trail around the island.  It is absolutely gorgeous!

12) Scrapbooking
I need to catch up.  I know I had years that I didn't do this.  I went through all of the albums and found the years that I have not yet finished.  These are the years I am in search of:
2006
2009

2010
2011
2012
2015
Done and Done!  It's been years since I've been this caught up!


13) Walk or Bike a portion of at least 6 Rail Trails

Does the Rideau Canal in Ontario count?  I don't think it's an official Rail Trail, but it is alongside a canal, and at one time, there were rail tracks nearby.  It's officially a World Heritage site, so I'm going to add it.  We hiked a good 10 miles of it while we were in Ottawa!  Such a beautiful place!



This month, I hit up several trails the last couple of weeks of the month, going on my days off in the middle of the week.  Some of the days were a little chilly, but it was a lot of fun!


1) NCR Rail Trail
2) Rideau Canal 
3) Custis Trail
4) C & O Canal
5) Baltimore and Annapolis Trail
6) Savage Mill Trail


14) Pay off the big debt and one smaller one-
The big debt is gone.  It's nice to have one monkey off my back! 

The payments on the smaller debt have accelerated.  My goal was to have this paid off by December of this year, but it very well might be Feb. or March of 2017 due to the extenuating circumstances we've had this year.

15) The Recipes Tab
I nicely fixed up the recipe tab so that it is easy to find recipes that I've posted on here before.  For me, this is my online recipe book.  Some of the recipes are my own.  Some, I post direct links to other sites.  You might or might not choose to use it, but I use it on a pretty regular basis, and I've found out that one of the boys does, too.  He likes the fact that most of what I've listed is food he already loves and that everything is fairly easy to make and budget conscious.  (Hey Kiddo!  Glad you stopped by for a while!  Call your mother sometime.  She'd really like to hear from you!)

So, how did you do with your goals this year?

Thursday, December 29, 2016

Book Review: Outlander



Claire Randall is in Scotland, celebrating her second honeymoon with her husband after the "official" end of World War 2.  Both Claire and her husband were involved in the war effort and have seen each other only occasionally over the seven years that they've been married, and this is their first opportunity in a long time to spend some serious time getting to know one another all over again.

Claire is an amateur botanist, and she has taken advantage of her time in Scotland to find out more about the native flora and fauna, and spend time with the people of the area, learning more about the healing properties of these herbs. She finds some particularly fascinating herbs up around a stone circle.  After one trip up with her husband, Claire goes back a second time to gather more herbs.  Through some strange twist of the cosmos, Claire is flung 200 years into the past - back into Scotland in the years immediately preceding the Jacobite Rebellion.

As Claire struggles to come to grips with her new reality, she finds love - a love so strong and so deep that it crosses the boundaries of time.  Surrounded by intrigue and uncertainty at every turn, Claire struggles to find her way back to her husband and her own time.  But if she ever finds the portal back to her own time, will this love keep her in this strange world?

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Wednesday, December 28, 2016

Pictures

Looking back over my pictures from the year, I found a few I wanted to share again!  These are my favorite pictures from this year!  Enjoy this romp down memory lane!


Chess board in the library in State College.

An working, up to date card catalog!

Luna will do anything to get her paws on pumpkin bread.

At the Udvar Hazy museum (Smithosonian) an Apollo capsule up for restoration.

The National Arboretum.

Cherry Blossoms in DC.

Cunningham Falls State Park

Urban Oasis at the Miller Library in Ellicott City.

Tiger makes that stretch look sooo good!

Downtown Frederick.

Botanic Gardens at Cornell.

Niagara Falls.  (Canadian Side)

Niagara Falls - from Niagara State Park. (Canadian Falls)

Parliament Building, Ottawa.

The Rideau River, Ottawa.

Monday, December 26, 2016

Monday Musings

It's been a busy week!  I hope everyone is enjoying their holiday season.  It's been an interesting one for us.  I've been very glad to have all the kids home, and I've been enjoying spending every minute with them, playing games, chatting, and watching nonsense television.  It's helped to put life back into perspective.

We're happily enjoying our Christmas leftovers!  Dinner tonight is Salmon Pasta salad made with the leftovers from last nights salmon.  (We had both salmon and ham last night.)  I've got beans soaking right now.  I'm going to make a huge pot of bean soup tomorrow using the leftover ham bone and the leftover roasted veggies.  It should be great!

Santa came through our neighborhood on the back of the fire truck Thursday night.  I always love seeing Santa, and I enjoy how much the volunteer fire department enjoys riding around the neighborhoods, dressed as Santa and waving at the kids.  It's a holiday tradition I eagerly anticipate every year!
We put in a lot of time on Friday, making candy.  Here you can see the Buckeyes that we made.  Surprisingly, we still have a few around the house!  We're very slowly working our way through them.  They are one of my favorite candies!  We dip ours using forks to fish them out of the chocolate.  I know some people use toothpicks to drop them in and fish them out, but I've dropped a lot of peanut butter balls back into the chocolate when they've fallen off of the toothpicks.  I don't know that there's any difference in the finished product.  And  they seem to disappear at the same rate no matter how you finish them off!


Middle child set the kitchen table for Christmas dinner.  Do you see how he put every single utensil straight up out of the food?  It was something special!  

A side note here:  This year, I ordered a fruit salad and a large Super Food Side Salad from Chick Fil A to serve with our meal.  Let me tell you, the food was amazing.  The Super Food side salad is one of the only ways you'll voluntarily get me to eat Kale.  It came in a nice covered plastic tray that I was able to put directly out on the table.  The large fruit salad covered us for breakfast on Christmas morning, and the leftovers were put out with the desert that night.  I'm not receiving any compensation from Chick Fil A here, I just wanted to mention how amazingly helpful it was to have the fruit and salad already done for me.  All I had to do was pull it out and put it on the table.  It's a very much appreciated short cut!  
We didn't venture out anywhere today.  Daughter works at a major retailer, and she was working today.  She sent out a note a while ago, stating "Mission Status: Chaos has descended upon the floor.  Mission Abort.  SOS - Save Our Store."   Knowing what major retailers look like on the day after Christmas, I'm expecting a very tired young lady to walk through the door in half an hour.  Dinner will be warm and waiting for her not too long after she walks in the door.

Wishing you the best as we quickly approach the end of the year!





Friday, December 23, 2016

Thoughts and Prayers

If you get a chance, could you please send your thoughts and prayers towards the following people:

1) Coquito, of Amy's World.  He is in his second round of chemo now, and he is in the hospital until he finishes up this round - which will be sometime after the holidays.

2) Remi.  #TeamRemi.  Remi is a young lady who was born 3 months early.  Four months later, she's still in the hospital.  She is having problems breathing on her own. 

3) Youngest Child's Friend.  His mother passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday.  Hospitalized on Friday, diagnosed with cancer on Saturday, she was supposed to start chemo on Weds.  Her family buried her this morning. 

4) My cousin Mark's family.  His Dad passed away last week.  He was 94 years old, and a WW2 vet. 

5) My friend Sharon.  Her mother fell down two weeks ago.  She broke her hip, and hit her head when she fell.  The head injury killed her.

I know my friends are not the only ones who are suffering from loss this time of year.  So many of us are.  So in the midst of celebrations and presents and joy, take time to call a friends who is missing someone this year.  Once the funeral is over, people go back to their lives, with a giant empty space.  Give someone a call, and invite them out for coffee or a movie this next week.