Thursday, May 26, 2016

Summer and Random Pictures

Wow, summer arrived with a bang yesterday!  It had been a cold and wet spring for us in the Mid-Atlantic this year, with long bouts of cold, wet, rainy days.  I turned our heaters off in April when we hit our first big warm spell - and kept it off.  We ended up lighting a fire in the fireplace several days as we fought to keep the chill out of the house and as this stubborn frugal girl fought to keep the heaters off.

Yesterday, the heat arrived, and with it came all of the humidity from a months' worth of rain.  Holy cow, it feels like late July or early August right now!

We are having our annual inspection of the a/c system today, and then *fingers crossed* all will be set for the rest of the summer.

In the meantime, I wanted to share some pictures from my garden!

That's one very overgrown garden!  A month of rain will do that!

Peony


Coreopsis


I think this is Salvia - I don't remember and can't get close enough to see my little sign on the ground!

Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Happy Towel Day!

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Douglas Adam's book "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy" was a cult classic back in the day.  I adored the book - along with millions of others.  The tale wrapped golden nuggets of truth in a wonderful coating of silly, slightly off kilter events and random stories.


If you're not familiar with the book, Arthur Dent awakens one morning to find that his house has been scheduled for demolition by the highway board.  They sent him notice about the hearings to condemn his house, but the mail was never seen.  His friend Ford arrives on the scene and instead of helping him resolve the situation, he pulls him off to the local bar, gets a couple of shots of alcohol into him and then tells him that the entire earth is scheduled for demolition for the creation of an inter-spatial highway, and that notice has been sitting in a filing room for years and nobody had filed any objections, and today was the day of demolition.

As Arthur attempts to wrap his mind around this news, the giant space bulldozers appear in the sky over England.

Ford has found a solution, though.  It turns out that he is a contributor to the book "The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy".  He has traveled across the galaxy hitchhiking through space on various freighters and pleasure craft.  He has "arranged" a ride with one of the arriving space ships.  He and Arthur are whisked away from the planet just before the first push from the space bulldozers.

Arthur is given a tiny little book to help him figure out what in the world has just happened.  It is entitled "The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy", and emblazoned on the cover are the very comforting words "Don't Panic".

Does Arthur panic?  Can he adapt?  Where does this wild and madcap adventure take him next?

You really need to read the book and find out!


So, back to the towel...  It's best described in Douglas Adams' own words from the Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy:


A towel, it says, is about the most massively useful thing an interstellar hitchhiker can have. Partly it has great practical value -- you can wrap it around you for warmth as you bound across the cold moons of Jaglan Beta; you can lie on it on the brilliant marble sanded beaches of Santraginus V, inhaling the heady sea vapours; you can sleep under it beneath the stars which shine so redly on the desert world of Kakrafoon; use it to sail a mini raft down the slow heavy river Moth; wet it for use in hand-tohand-combat; wrap it round your head to ward off noxious fumes or to avoid the gaze of the Ravenous Bugblatter Beast of Traal (a mindboggingly stupid animal, it assumes that if you can't see it, it can't see you -- daft as a bush, but very ravenous); you can wave your towel in emergencies as a distress signal, and of course dry yourself off with it if it still seems to be clean enough. 

More importantly, a towel has immense psychological value. For some reason, if a strag (strag: non-hitchhiker) discovers that a hitchhiker has his towel with him, he will automatically assume that he is also in possession of a toothbrush, face flannel, soap, tin of biscuits, flask, compass, map, ball of string, gnat spray, wet weather gear, space suit etc., etc. Furthermore, the strag will then happily lend the hitchhiker any of these or a dozen other items that the hitchhiker might accidentally have "lost". What the strag will think is that any man who can hitch the length and breadth of the galaxy, rough it, slum it, struggle against terrible odds, win through, and still knows where his towel is is clearly a man to be reckoned with.


So, my friends.... do you know where your towel is?

Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Bucket List

So, this version of the Bucket List has been circulating around social media.  I thought I'd play along and share it on here - along with some explanations!  How about you?  Have you done many of these things?

Been Married X
26 years come July!

Fell in love X



Gone on a blind date 

I missed out on this particular experience.  

Skipped school X

As a teacher, and as a student both.  :)
Sometimes, you just need a day off.
 
Watched someone give birth 


Watched someone die X

I was there with my Dad.  Not a terrific experience, but to see peace come over him a few hours before he died, that was something incredible.

Been to Canada 

Stay tuned for this...

Been to Hawaii 


Been to Europe 


Been to Las Vegas 


Been to Washington D.C. X

Many, many times.  I went to high school just outside of DC, and up until a few years ago, I took the kids down at least once a year.

Been to Nashville X

Many, many years ago, I went with my Aunt and Uncle.  I was 8.  I enjoyed the entire experience.  I really want to go back again.  I'm certain things have changed in the 42 years since I've been there!

Visited Florida X

I went when I was in high school with the band.  And I went when I was in college with my singing group.  5 years ago, we went with our mostly grown kids.  It's an interesting experience!  I'm not a fan of the summer heat and humidity in FloridaWe've got heat and humidity in spades around here - and I'm not a fan of it.  It's even more humid and hot in Florida.

Visited Mexico 

Does a trip over the border when you're 5 count?

Seen the Grand Canyon in person 

Soon
 
Flown in a Helicopter 


Been on a cruise 

Hmmm.... A cruise like the Love Boat?  Where you vacation?  NO
A cruise like a scenic cruise past the Norfolk Naval Base?  YES
A cruise like a ferry ride?  YES

Served on a jury 


Been in a movie (music video) 


Been to Los Angeles X

My Dad took me out to Los Angeles after I graduated from high school in 1983.  Haven't been back since. 

Been to New York City X

I went for the first time for my 21st birthday.  I've been back once with each of the kids - the oldest on a band trip.  The middle one for his graduation trip.  The youngest one to look at colleges.

Played in a band (orchestra) X

High school band!  Who-Hoo!  I played flute, and I played bassoon.  I should have put more time and effort into both.  Who knows where I'd be now if I had?

Sang karaoke X

And I was sober each time I did it, too!  I'm really not a bad singer - so as long as I pick a song in my vocal range, all is good.  

Made prank phone calls X

You know, this might very well be a generational thing.  I don't think that this happens in the age of caller ID.  My generation might have been one of the last that will have done this.

Laughed so much you peed your pants X


Caught a snowflake on your tongue X

The first snowstorm of every year, I make a point of going out and catching snowflakes on my tongue.  I don't know why, but it seems like a good thing to do!

Had children X

Three of them!

Had a pet dog X

My husband is afraid of dogs, so we don't have any - but we had several when I was growing up: Orangie, a mixed breed mutt.  Top Hat, a purebred Pekinese that was practically given away since he was the runt of the litter.  Winnie, a Dachshund. Princess - a terrier mix of indeterminate origin that my Mom saved from being dumped on the highway.

Been sledding on big hill X

Virginia Tech Golf Course. 
The Hill by Lake Elkhorn in Columbia.  

Been downhill skiing X

One of the more embarrassing moments of my life.
I'm lucky I didn't break anything.

Been water skiing X

Another one of the most embarrassing moments of my life.
I spent an awful lot of time being pulled THROUGH the water face first.

Rode on a motorcycle X

Dad had a motorcycle for a few years.  I enjoyed our rides together!

Jumped out of a plane 


Been to a drive-in movie X

Another item that might very well be a generational thing.  The last time I went to a drive in was before we had kids.  I think husband and I need to try to track one down this summer.

Rode an elephant X

At the zoo, when I was a little girl.

Been on TV X

Recently, too.  As part of the school's robotics team triumphal win of a major award!

Been in newspaper X

Only for good things! Winning a volunteer award, speaking about my Girl Scouts, or about an outreach project at my church.

Stayed in Hospital X

When my kids were born.

Donated blood 


Gotten a piercing X

My ears are pierced!

Gotten a tattoo 


Driven a stick shift vehicle X

I learned how to drive in a stick shift, my first car was a stick, and our Accord was a stick.  

Driven over 100 mph



Been scuba diving 


Lived on your own X


Rode in the back of police car X

We'd been in an accident and our car was totaled.  The very nice officer drove us home in the back of his car.  It was a little weird when I realized there were no door handles in the back!  Not an experience I want to repeat, but so very glad the officer drove us home and we didn't have to wait for a taxi to come and find us in the middle of the night.

Got a speeding ticket 

*knock on wood* not yet. 

Friday, May 20, 2016

Frugal Friday

There's nothing more frugal than growing your own, is there?  One of my goals for the year was to get my vegetable garden back up and running.  Unfortunately, with the ground as cold and wet as it has been this spring, I haven't been able to get anything into the ground.  (We actually had frost Tuesday morning - two weeks AFTER the last frost date for our area.)   So, enter my Pot Garden!  I have planted the herbs I rely on most heavily in my kitchen in here.  Thyme, Oregano, Dill, Rosemary, Cilantro, Basil, and Chives are planted in the big pot.  Not only can I use the herbs from the pot throughout the summer, I can pick and dry herbs and save them for use during the rest of the year.  In the little pot next to the big one, we've got some Lavender growing.  We like to pick the buds and make tea with it, and dry it to make sachets to put in with our clothes to make them smell better than any dryer sheet ever could.  Off to the left of the pot you can see my Black Eyed Susans - they are literally growing like weeds - and off to the right, you can see the weeds.  Technically, they're violets, and I love the pretty purple flowers they produce, so I don't pull them.  They're "ambiance".

The kids are all home for a few days before the scatter to the winds again.  We went down to my Mom's house yesterday, and had a wild and raucous time with my nieces.

The ceiling fan in the Master Bedroom is now installed and working - just in time for the summer heat to settle in.  I really, really hope it helps keep the room cool!  The fan in the living room makes a huge difference in the livability of that room with the thermostat set higher.  Hopefully, this will have just as big of an impact in the Master Bedroom, and eventually will impact the bottom line on our electric bills!

This little mouse cookie appeared at lunch recently.
I made a gigantic pot of pinto beans this week.  We had pinto beans with cornbread for dinner that night.  The next day, I mashed them down a bit, and then made a lot of burritos and enchiladas and froze them.  The burritos were made with gluten full tortillas and then wrapped individually in waxed paper and saved for later.  The enchiladas I wrapped up in corn tortillas and packed them up in packs of two with enchilada sauce.  These are intended for my lunch for work.  I had hoped to pack them with arroz, but every time I make a huge batch of arroz, everyone ends up eating it all.  What can you do?  Honestly, I'm glad they like my cooking enough to eat it!

We are planning on having a cook out with the kids Sunday afternoon.  We have some dead fall around the yard that needs to be taken care of, so we're going to burn it down in the fire pit and roast marshmallows.  At least, that's the plan.  It's been so wet that I'm not certain the wood will actually burn.  We might end up roasting our marshmallows over the gas grill by the time all is said and done!


Thursday, May 19, 2016

On Being a Cookie Mom

I was roaming through old posts this morning when I found this wonderful reminder of life the way it was!  It was originally published on Sept. 18, 2013.

I've been a Girl Scout Cookie mom on and off over the last ten years. 

Ten years ago, I was a new arrival in this town, and I had been talked into the job of cookie mom by my daughter's girl scout leader.  I didn't know many people here, but I did think this would be a great way to meet some new people.

I wasn't really sure what the job entailed, but I was reassured that I would be able to attend training for new cookie moms.

When I showed up at the training session, all of the seats were taken.  I found a spot on the floor, pulled out a notebook and began taking notes.

Ten minutes into the meeting, I felt a little tickle on my foot and looked down to see that a mouse had climbed up onto my shoe and had his front paws on my knee.  He was looking up at me with very bright, curious eyes.

The next thing I knew, I was being helped down off the top of the table.

I'm not sure whatever happened to the mouse, but thanks to that mouse, I did meet many new people that night!

Wednesday, May 18, 2016

The Importance of Play

My BS is in Early Childhood Education.  I spent years teaching in Early Childhood Ed - grades 1-3, preschool, and I subbed in K-2 classrooms for years.  I adore the age group, and the enthusiasm and energy that these little kids have for learning and for love.

Children learn best through play.  Let me repeat this for you - Children learn best through play.

Not rote memorization.  Not structured learning "games".  PLAY.  Watch a young child in a sandbox with some sand toy that has wheels and gizmos, and check out the concentration involved as they workout how the sand falls to the ground and how the wheels turn.  Give them enough gizmos and toys to work with in the sandbox, and they will figure out how everything from gravity to gears work.

When I was searching for preschools for my own children, I remember searching for schools that had a play based curriculum.  I was more interested in them learning how to work and play well with others, and being given free time to explore age appropriate toys than I was with them learning how to read.  I made them play for an hour when they came home from school, and I limited the amount of screen time they had.  No more than 2 hours of television a day - and some days, we didn't even watch that much.  I don't know how well my theories played out, but my kids are well adjusted, one is in graduate school, and two are in college.  All received academic scholarships, and none of them were reading Harry Potter while still in kindergarten. 

Sadly, we have been moving away from play in our classrooms.  The trend has been towards forcing children to learn the alphabet and pushing them to read at younger and younger ages.  The last year that I worked as a substitute teacher, which was 2 years ago - things had changed drastically.  I subbed in a kindergarten classroom the second week of school, and the teacher told me how worried she was for the kids.  They were to know all 26 letters of the alphabet - upper and lower case, all the colors, all the shapes, and all the numbers through 20 - before the end of September.  Now most kids are ready for this, but not all.  They were supposed to have their first hundred words memorized and be able to recognize them in content before Thanksgiving.  Again, many kids are ready for this, but not all.  Back when I was learning how to teach - 25 years ago - we let kindergartners play with letters, numbers, and shapes. We let them explore their relationships with each other.  We played with pattern recognition.  Dear God, did we play with pattern recognition - using shapes, colors, and letters, we worked on pattern recognition.  We worked on fine motor skills - you know, your finger pincher grasp that you use to hold a pencil?  We worked on number theory.  Not only did the kids know the numbers, we were to make certain that three rocks = 3 = THREE.  We made certain that they understood that 3 was more than 1.   We let them play with manipulatives so that they could get a grasp of the concept of number.  We'd work on one to one correspondence.  Do we have enough toy cars for all of the dinosaurs to ride out to the playground in?  Let's see!!!  Nowadays, kids are adding and subtracting well before the end of kindergarten, but I'm not sure they understand why they need to know.

And where has this gotten us? 

ADHD rates nationally are through the roof.  Five year old children are being asked to sit still and learn for 45 minutes or more at a time without a break.  Developmentally, five year olds are just not capable of sitting still for that long.  Recess and naptime have been removed from the curriculum in the name of "test scores".

Anxiety and other stress related disorders are on the rise as our children are being pushed harder and harder to perform better.  Play, imagination, and free time have been wiped out of the school.  It doesn't help that parents are structuring their kids after school free time so that kids have no chance - no chance at all - to decompress from the stress of the day and let their minds take in what they have learned.

European countries - countries that stress play and don't begin to teach reading to their students until they are 8 years old - are performing better on standardized test scores across the board.  They have recess in their schools.  Vibrant music and arts programs.  Physical Education.  And across the board, these kids are performing better than our kids.  Do you see the disconnect?  As we push our kids down some dystopian road tied in with higher test scores, we are losing touch with the most valuable resource of all - the imagination.  The imagination that can take a seemingly impossible problem, work outside of the lines, and find a workable solution.  We are drilling that imagination, that love of play, and enjoyment of discovery and figuring out how things work in the name of test scores. 

I read a disturbing thought recently that I want to share here.

Do you remember the Apollo 13 Mission?  The lunar module broke.  The astronauts were facing the very real possibility that they were going to die - adrift and alone in the orbit of the moon.  NASA engineers were given a box containing everything that was available in the module and told to find a solution.

Find a solution they did.  Working hard against a clock with minimal supplies and the knowledge that death was the result of failure, they came up with a wildly imaginative solution that brought all of the astronauts safely back home.

There is doubt that our youngest crop of engineers and scientists have the kind of imagination now that would enable them to pull off the same miracle in the same situation.

It's frightening when you realize that those "old" engineers worked with nothing more than slide rules, and had played outdoors at recess throughout elementary school, were not over-scheduled on weekends and in the evenings, and had grown up without computers, smart phones, or video games.

What are we doing to ourselves?


The resources I used for this piece can be found here:
 

More Students Entering School Without Fine Motor Skills

How Schools Ruined Recess - And 4 Ways to Fix It

A NYC Teacher Breaks Silence on the Power of Play

Harnessing the Incredible Learning Potential of the Adolescent Brain

School Accountability Without Standardized Testing

Kindergartners Get Little Time to Play.  Why Does it Matter?

Students Who Use Digital Devices in Class Perform Worse in Exams

Tuesday, May 17, 2016

The Farmer's Market

Have you noticed that more and more farmer's markets are opening up as the growing season progresses?  I hit up two separate farmer's markets this weekend, saw my favorite farmers and picked up some wonderful produce!


You can only get these tasty roots in the spring and fall.  I LOVE BEETS!!



Asparagus.  This won't be around for much longer.  It doesn't even freeze well.

I picked up lettuce, spinach, and kale, too, but they don't make as nice of a picture.  Lots of green leaves in a bag....  But, they were picked fresh that morning!  I picked up some rhubarb, too.  Nothing screams spring like Strawberry - Rhubarb Cobbler.

Flower baskets galore!  I love the colors in this one!



More flowers!  I love their faces!


I picked up herbs, too.  A lot of herbs.  We filled a large pot.  I have basil, thyme, oregano, and chives.  Daughter put lavender in another pot.  I'm still searching for dill.  I'm not certain where I'm going to find it, though.

The biggest problem for the farmers is the very wet weather we've been having.  It's been hard to get stuff into the ground.  And you know, once the rain stops, it is going to be hot and muggy.  I hope there's enough of a window for the farmers to get their crops in this year.

I worked on this post yesterday morning.  Last night, Channel 2 News in Baltimore ran this story about the weather and the impact upon local crops:  http://www.wbaltv.com/news/wacky-weather-knocks-out-summer-crops-in-westminster/39573016.  I can't get the actual video to share in my window, but if you click on the link, you'll see the story. 

As I look out my window, I'm watching yet another gully washer pour down yet more rain upon our very soaked ground.  I'm beginning to get a little worried about the summer crops now...

What about you?  Have you managed to get anything in the ground yet this year?