Attempting Life as an Empty Nester

For years, this blog has been about raising kids, working with kids, and sharing my life with many kids.  When I started the blog, my kids were in the throes of Middle School - and writing to an unknown audience in the great "out there" was cathartic.  I wrote for me.  I wrote about my life.  I wrote about things that make me laugh and while attempting to deal with the very real, very frustrating realities of having three kids who were born within 4 years of each other.  Their birthdays are all in the same week in January, for God's sake.  Not planned to be that way - it just was that way.  So when I say it was a challenge having pre-teen or early teen kids, by God, it really was.  The kids are all polar opposites of each other - if you can imagine that of three children.

Time inevitably marches onward, and my kids grew up.  First one, then another, and finally the last of the kids have moved on.  Oldest son is in graduate school in Pennsylvania.  Middle child is in Kansas, and daughter is in her last year of college, and she decided to move in with friends and be closer to campus rather than continue the commute back and forth to school every day.

We are still the parents to two cats - Hobbes and Luna.  Daughter wanted to take them with her, but the lease said no.  Somehow, the cats are easier to parent than the children were.  (Go figure...)

I can't really post about the kids.  They've  all moved out.  It's just me and the husband at home now.  Posting about how to save money on groceries seems a little insulting when I'm only cooking for 2. 

For now, I'm going to put the Blog on hold.  Enjoy looking back at our past memories!

 

Kindergarten Readiness

This post contains an Affiliate Link to Lulu.com - links to books that I have self-published.  Your purchase from this site goes to support this blog.  Thank you!

So, I've done a thing.  I self-published a set of 3 books aimed at pre-schoolers.  These books are called Building Blocks to School Success, and they are grouped by season: Fall, Winter, and Spring.  Each book contains activities, finger plays, recipes, crafts, and explanations of key literacy concepts that will help you understand why these concepts are so vitally important for your child to master.

Hey Look!  It's my book!

Most importantly, I emphasize again and again that every child learns at a different pace, and every child can succeed - but that the time that they acquire these skills will differ greatly.

I've had them available on Lulu for quite some time, but thought I would actually mention them on here.  If you want to visit my Lulu Author Site, you can find these three books, as well as another wild little memoir that's mostly true that I wrote about my childhood.

You can find my Lulu Site here:

For a limited time, all items are 10% off. 

I've got several more in the works... I'll let you know as I get them published.

Thank you! 

Monty Python Retirement Party

Our branch manager retires today.  I am really going to miss her.  She is an inspired leader who brings out the best in all of her employees without micromanaging.  That's a difficult balance to achieve.

We had her retirement party earlier this week.  It was just a drop by and say good luck event, but it was unexpectedly fun.  She is a huge Monty Python fan, so we themed the party around Monty Python - even going so far as to sing The Lumberjack Song, rewritten to read "I'm a Librarian".

I have a few pictures to share!

Do you remember the scene in Monty Python and the Holy Grail with the Bloody Rabbit?  Well, we made a mock up of the bloody rabbit into a photo booth...

This rabbit was the product of my very twisted imagination.  As you can see from the picture below, cutting out the mouth and adding red paint around the mouth made a huge difference in the overall effect.

 

 

It was a once in a lifetime retirement party!  I wish her the very best in her retirement!

It's What to Read!

I've read a lot - and I mean A LOT of excellent books this summer.  I wanted to share them with you!  In no particular order, here are my favorite reads of the summer!


Hope Never Dies
by Andrew Shaffer
In this amazing book written in the style of a Carolyn Keene Nancy Drew novel, Former Vice President Joe Biden is lamenting the end of 8 grade years and the dissolution of his wonderful Bromance with Barack Obama.  The suspicious demise of his favorite Amtrak conductor leads Joe to find out more.  As he begins to investigate the circumstances of Finn's death, he finds an unexpected partner in Barack Obama and his Secret Service guard, Steve.  The jokes roll nonstop, the plot is solid, and the Bromance continues unabated.  It's a great read for those who appreciate satire.




The Parker Inheritance
by Varian Johnson

This children's book is appropriate for children of all ages.

In 2007, a mysterious letter is sent to 4 people in the city of Lambert, South Carolina.  The letter gives clues to a hidden treasure that will help the people of Lambert.  There's just one catch - the letter is written with a bunch of clues, and the recipients must unscramble the clues in order to find the treasure.  After the City Manager digs up the tennis courts, the hunt is called off, the letters are destroyed, and all is forgotten.  Or is it?

Abigail Caldwell, the former City Manager leaves the letter in a box in her attic for her granddaughter, Candice, to find when she gets older.  Ten years later, in 2017, Candice discovers the letter and begins the hunt to find the treasure.  While on the hunt, Candice and her friend Brandon discover the tense racial history of Lambert. 

As the hunt continues, Candice discovers more about her life, the world around her, and her family.  But will she and Brandon find the treasure before time runs out?

*Remember this book.  I think it's going to be an award winner.

The Invisible Library 
by Genevive Cogman
There exists an interdimensional library.  The great authors exist across all dimensions.  But, not all works exist in every dimension.  The library collects manuscripts and books that are unique to each dimension.  The librarians are the individuals charged with collecting these books and bringing them back to the library.  Complicating their tasks are Dragons and Fey, who exist across all dimensions and work towards their own purposes - sometimes working with the Librarians, and sometimes actively working against them.

Irene and her assistant Kai have been sent to this particular dimension to retrieve a copy of a book that exists only in this dimension.  Unexpected obstacles are thrown in their way by the Fey and another, unknown entity.  As Kai and Irene race against time, can they find the missing text before their unknown adversary?



The Feather Thief: Beauty, Obsession, and the Natural History Heist of the Century
by Kirk Johnson



This true crime novel was NOT what I was expecting when I picked up the book.  In 2007, Edwin Rist, a Flautist with a promising concert career ahead of him broke into the Tring Museum in Great Britain and stole priceless birds - many of these specimens are not extinct - that were collected by Alfred Russell Wallace in the late 19th and early 20th century.

Edwin then very carefully dissected his stolen birds and sold them on the internet to Classic Fly Tiers - people who were desperate for authentic feathers to make their Victorian Fishing Lures more appealing.

Johnson carefully traces the history of the birds, and of the theft of the birds and the recovery of some of the priceless treasure.  I found myself using all of my sluthing skills, garnered after hours of watching NCIS.  The resolution of this story will haunt you.  You will find yourself going back again and again, attempting to figure out what, if anything, you missed.  This book is a must read.

Fascism: A Warning

by Madeline Albright
This book should be required reading for every human on the planet.  Albright takes a look at Facism in the 20th Century.  How it developed in different countries throughout the last hundred years.  No political commentary whatsoever.  Just a historic look back in time.






Children of Blood and Bone
by Tomi Adeyemi

I don't even know where to start this review.  This was a phenomenal book.  From one end to another, one of the best Fantasy Stories I have read in a very long time.  The world building!  The characters!  The character development!  The plots within plots within plots!  I want to put it right up there with Lord of the Rings and the Dragon Lance Chronicles.  WAIT!!!!  THIS IS MY BLOG, I CAN PUT IT WHEREVER I WANT!!!  So, I'm putting this book up there in the same hallowed grounds as my other favorite icons of the Fantasy World. 

Zelie Adebola lives in a world where she must keep her magic hidden.  There was a time when Tiders called the waves, Burners ignited waves, and Reapers called forth souls.  Zelie comes from a long line of magicians.  These magicians were killed by the king's men the night the magic disappeared.

As Zelie's own magic begins to surge, she is forced to hide it, and herself more and more.  The King's men are constantly searching for magicians to purge, and taxing the rest of the citizenry to the breaking point.

The breaking point for Zellie comes when she is forced to go into the city to sell a prize fish her grandfather caught in order to pay the latest levies from the King.  An unexpected series of events leads Zellie and her brother to the place they least want to be: harboring the daughter of the King.

As Zellie attempts to control her magic and growing feelings for the one person she can't afford to love, the story grows only deeper and more gripping.

*Tomi, how long must we wait for the sequel? I am pining away here, waiting for the next book.  Literally wasting away, worrying about Zellie, worrying about Orisha, wanting to know what happens next..... All other books are just a little less bright while I anxiously await the next book.

Fiery Starburst

Have you tried these yet??  They're a wicked combination of sweet and heat.  One of the flavors is watermelon pepper.  They're a disturbing combination of tastes that I really wanted to try.  But I didn't want to buy an entire bag, eat one or two, and then throw the bag out.  Or even worse, buy a bag and then eat the entire thing.  So, I bought a bag and took it to work. 

We had a great time.  Everyone tried one of each flavor, and then we went on about our business.  Someone put the candy in the jar by the coffee pot.  And we promptly forgot about it.

Enter Anna, who was off the day that we brought in the Starbursts.  She grabbed a handful, put one in her mouth, and after a minute started screaming "What is wrong with these things?  Why is my mouth on fire?  What is happening?" 

We told her.

We apologized profusely.

She complained some more.

She drank a lot of water and then complained some more.

10 minutes later, she was back by the coffee pot, digging in the candy jar.  "Well now that I know what the pink one tastes like, I need to see what the yellow one tastes like..."

It's human nature.  It makes you wonder how we've managed to survive for this long, doesn't it?

Chief Security Officer's Report

 It's been an interesting time here in the Mid-Atlantic sector.  I am new to the post and have many things to relate in this, my first security report back to the Federation.

I have been playing with something called "yarn".  It's green and blue, and Mom is making it into a shrug.  Or so she says.  I think it is alive.  When she works on it, the yarn moves!  I do my best to kill it so it won't hurt her, but all I hear is "No Hobbes, don't do that!" and then she puts all of the yarn away, just killing my fun.

We had strangers come into the Station two weeks ago.  They removed a freezer from the basement.  Dad (the hairy human) said that they were from the electric company, and were going to remove an old appliance for us.  In exchange, they would give us money to get an old appliance off the grid.  (What is this "grid"?)  I subjected them to a thorough Screening before allowing them into the Station.  While I smelled many new and intriguing smells, none seemed threatening.  The strangers smiled at me and attempted to scratch my ears!  Can you believe the unmitigated gall of them!  I kept a close eye on them, watching their every move from the top of the stairs as well as from the top of the kitchen refrigerator.  As they were leaving the house, I gave them a final hiss to let them know that they were no longer welcome in the Station.  

 These "flowers" came into the house last week.  They smell very nice, but they don't taste all that great.  I ate one, but then the girl started yelling at me "No, Hobbes!  Don't eat that!  My BF gave them to me!  Stop it!"  She then pulled the "flowers" away from me.  After further investigation, I discovered that these flowers are called "Roses" and that the girl's special friend gave them to her. 

I keep hearing this word "NO".  I still don't know what it means, but I hear it a LOT.  I have been investigating it, and I have discovered that I hear it more when I do things that are really fun - like taking salmon off of a plate when somebody gets up from the table, pulling a wallet out of a purse, sitting on the kitchen counter and eating chicken off the cutting board, or untying shoelaces.  I really don't like this word.

Commander Luna is slowly getting adjusted to her new Command Position.  She doesn't respond to being called "Hey You", or even "Miss", but she does love to be called Commander.  I am having a hard time calling her Commander, but I am getting used to it.  She didn't care for me much at first, but she has accepted me.  We now touch noses, nuzzle against each other, play chase around the house, and every once in a while, we even play footsie.  I think I'm going to like this assignment. 

The humans in the house found a new and interesting way to torment the felines in the house.  This torture device houses food and treats.  Mom calls it a "stimulation" toy.  It's supposed to enrich our lives and keep us challenged and interested.  We were considering calling this cruel and unusual, but they are putting the really good chicken treats in here, so we are holding off on invoking the Geneva Catventions.

 

Lieutenant Hobbes
Chief Security Officer
Station #1
Mid-Atlantic Sector

John Cleese

We celebrated our anniversary last month.  Husband and I went to see Monty Python and the Holy Grail, which was followed by a Q & A Session with John Cleese.  We went to the Lyric Theater in Baltimore to see him.  Long story short, we had a fantastic time!  If you ever get a chance to see him, it is worth your time. 

He spoke about many things, answered audience questions, showed some of his favorite clips from his movies, and joked about so many things.  He is funny and compelling, a captivating speaker.

I think the favorite story he told was about how George Harrison funded Life of Brian.  No movie studio would touch it.  They didn't think it was funny or worth their time.  (At this point, Cleese reiterated that Life of Brian has been named one of the top 10 funniest films of all time.)  The movie was funded when George Harrison read the script.  He laughed so hard while he was reading it that he fell out of bed.  He funded the movie because he wanted to actually see it on the screen.

John Cleese, right.

Husband and I have been married for 28 years.  I hope we get at least 28 more!

Catonsville Public Library

A classic Mid-Century Modern library with the design elements classic to this era, the Catonsville Library is a large, open branch in the Baltimore County Library System.  Located on Main Street, this branch is located within easy walking distance of much of the community.

Here's a few pictures I took recently when I stopped to check out the branch after attending a meeting close by:

The front entrance.  That's Main Street on the right.

I love the mural in the children's section!

The children's section is to the right.  Adult to the left.  This is the adult section.

The middle is a large open space!  Around the outside of the square, you have the stacks.

One of the few pictures I could get of the center without people.

And a close up of the windows around the top of the open space.  Lots of natural light!

Let me tell you - I go to visit these libraries, and they are packed with people.  Attempting to get any shots of any building without any faces in them is next to impossible.  This is just a small sampling of what the library looks like.  Trust me, this place was packed with people!

Baltimore County Public Library Website: https://www.bcpl.info/index.html

Mysterious Retirement Party

One of my coworkers retired last month.  We held a retirement party for her in the branch.

Have you ever read the Inspector Gamache series by Louise Penny?  If you have, you must be familiar with Gabri and Olivier's Bistro.  It's a gathering place, and the characters return frequently to the cafe to talk, eat, and gossip. 

Our librarian loves mysteries, and Louise Penny is her favorite author.  We attempted to set up the meeting room to look like Gabri and Olivier's cafe.  I don't know how successful we were, but the party was a hit.  I think we did the best job we possibly could to make a library meeting room seem like a cafe in a village in Quebec. 

We also set up a life size Clue game as a part of the party.  Clues were scattered about the room, and the suspects were a few of our co-workers.  We had a great time figuring out who got rid of Mr. Body in the library!

Well deserved retirement wishes are sent out to Leanne, the Maven of Mysteries and Librarian Extraordinaire.

I took a few pictures of our decorations, and I wanted to share them with you!

An attempt to make eclectic centerpieces.  I made bookmarks for Myrna's bookstore, too.

The sign says it all!

It does look like a cafe, doesn't it?

An homage to Louise Penny.  We imagine this is what her writing area looks like.

The mystery photo booth!  Gosh, this was fun!

A different centerpiece!

Trust me, there was food.  Tons of food!  I didn't take pictures of it, because I was too busy enjoying myself.  The party was fantastic.

2018 Resolutions August Update

July has been a very busy month.   I haven't had a chance to post much, but I've gotten a lot accomplished this month outside of the blog!  I've spent time with kids, with friends, and cleaning out the house.  Much progress has been made in reclaiming our basement!  FINALLY.  13 years after we moved in, I think we might finally be able to call the basement our own by the end of the year!  (Well okay, most of the basement.  Let's not be hasty here.)

My goals this year were lofty.  It's time to check in on them and see how I'm doing!

1) Participate in the NoSpenduary Challenge.
Did this!  No spending in February and March.  We're back in minimal spending mode now, tyring to build the savings back up again.

2) 40 Bags in 40 Days.
17 boxes at the end of June.

This month, I've done my best to get stuff - lots of stuff - out of the house.

Boxes to Good Will - 4
Bags O' Trash - 3
Miscellaneous Furniture -
1 Freezer circa 1972
1 Dehumidifier circa 1975
3 (2 drawer) file cabinets
1 desk top to fit over 2 of the file cabinets
3 dressers  (yes, you read that right, I had 3 empty dressers in my basement)
2 twin beds
1 old mini van

Total Items for July - 19

Total to Date: 36

Just 4 more boxes and bags!  I can do this!

3) Get Away With my Husband - TWICE
      1) Australia
      2) I've got a rough plan.  Need to start making some reservations!

4) Get One Big Debt Paid Off this Year
Working on getting the Civic paid off by the end of the year.

5) Finish Daughter's and Husband's quilts.
I'm sitting here as I type this, looking at the quilt.  And the hoop.  Every time I put the quilt in the hoop, Hobbes likes to pounce into the hoop.... it's making it impossible to finish the quilt!

6) Get Out to See Middle Child This Year
Hooray!  We got to see him over Memorial Day Weekend!  Now, we've got to find a way to get out to see him sometime over the holidays.  Maybe we can get him out here for Thanksgiving?  I'm trying to figure this out...

7) Replace the Roof on the House
I don't think it's going to happen this fall.  I want to make certain we've got the cash on hand to pay daughter's tuition this winter.  We're so close!  She graduates next spring.  As of this semester, we have run through the last of the Pre-Paid College Trust.  We'll be on our own for the Spring Semester Tuition.  I want to make certain we have it set aside well ahead of time.  So, the roof will have to wait until next spring.

8) Exercise Most Days During the Week
Done and doing this!

9) Make some of my Christmas Gifts this year.
Working on this.

10) Cut my Grocery Budget to $250/month
 Well, I've stopped keeping track. I'm giving up on this one.
I honestly don't have the time to keep track of everything I spend at the grocery store.

11) Turn my yarn and fabric stash into something more... but what?
Graduation present for daughter's boyfriend.
Baby Blanket for a Co-Worker
Turned a spool of tulle and blingy sparkles into a Fascinator for the Royal Wedding.


I'm currently working on a shrug for myself with yarn that I purchased for that purpose 4 years ago.  It's a beautiful, sea green and blue yarn.  I've found a wonderful lacy vest pattern that I purchased online.  Too bad that I just can't make that lace work!  The shrug will still be beautiful, but it won't be a lacework pattern.

12) Take One Item Off my Bucket List
 I did it!  And it was a big one!  I went to Australia with my husband!

13) Have One Media Free Day per Week
Not been a problem.

14) Visit 12 Libraries I Have Never Been to Before

Laurel Public Library

Lawrence Public Library Truman Library and Museum
New South Wales Library
Central Rappahannock Regional Library Porter Branch
Laurel Public Library
Elkridge Public Library

Catonsville Public Library

I have a couple of professional goals I want to meet, too.  I'm not going to list them here, but they're always in the back of my mind!


Professional Goals

1) PG #1

I had an article published! 

2) PG #2

The Rain, it Doth Rain Every Day

Hershey Park had to close last week due to flooding.

Technically, it didn't rain Saturday or Sunday.  BUT, we have had rain every single stinking day this month.  I didn't think rain bothered me that much up until Friday.  I've had enough.  Too bad that the forecast is calling for still more rain this week.

Our creeks are flooded.  The rivers are high.  Basements are damp.  But surprisingly enough, Ellicott City has not flooded.  I was at a meeting in Catonsville late last week.  I stopped by the Catonsville Library to look around, and then I headed home through old Ellicott City.  I heard that the main road was reopened, and I was curious to have a look around.  As I drove down the hill towards the bridge, I looked to my left and saw a full - a very full - river.  With another thunderstorm looming, I was thinking that the river would flood again.  The river was so full, I was surprised that they were still letting traffic go across the bridge into town.  I found out later I was in the last of the cars that was allowed to cross the bridge before the county shut it down over fears that it would flood.

No, Ellicott City did not flood.  But our basement did.

Yeah- here's another part of the story.

Our basement flooded last weekend.  Husband and I went out and did what we could to alleviate the water coming into the basement, and then I went out and bought a dehumidifier.  After 24 hours of almost constant running, we discovered that the water wasn't actually collecting in the bucket.  It was running down the side of the dehumidifier and down onto the floor.  Husband decided to "fix" it by putting the dehumidifier in a large rubbermaid tote.  I walked down about an hour later to see the dehumidifier, sitting on two wooded boards in a rubber tote filled with about an inch of water.   Something's wrong with this picture.

Anyway, I took the dehumidifier back on Monday.  I'll get another one, but I don't think I'm going to be getting the same brand, and I'm not going back to THAT store!

The sky Friday evening on the way home.

One last story about the flooding.  I close on Monday nights.  It's dark when I come home.  I drive over a tiny little "crick" with a tiny little bridge on my way home.  Monday night, I was driving the CRV when I drove up to that tiny little "crick".  Because it was dark and pouring down rain, I couldn't tell that I had hit water - a LOT of water - until I drove into it.  I wasn't sure the car was going to make it through.  That tiny little crick had completely covered the road - and the water came up over the hubcaps on my CRV.  If it weren't for the 4 Wheel Drive and the higher clearance, I'm not certain that I wouldn't have been on the news.  You know, as fodder for the 24 hours news cycle with the headline that read "Idiot Librarian Receives Overdue Notice on Standing Water".

As I write this on Monday morning, the sky has clouded over and rain is in the forecast for yet another week.... 

Nobody Ever Told Me

I was searching for an old post about moving the last freezer out of the basement when I came across this one!  It was originally published in April of 2012.  Seriously, you can't make this stuff up!  Enjoy this blast from the past!

We visited another college campus this past weekend.  Beautiful campus, set in the mountains of the Mid-Atlantic.  It was a glorious spring day when we began our tour, so the tour guides were wearing their fleece jackets with the name of the school discreetely emroidered on the front.

As we began our tour, one of the admissions officers said to our tour guide "There she goes!  Girl on fire!"  and everyone laughed.

"Everyone is being so mean to me," she lamented.  "We are given these nice fleece jackets to wear as tour guides.  and we even get to keep them! I love my fleece, it's so nice and warm, I wear it all the time.

The other day, I got out of the shower and put my fleece on to warm up quick.  I got warm, but my jacket got wet.  I didn't want to go outside with a wet coat, so I popped it into the microwave for a minute to dry it off.

Nobody ever told me that fleece was flammable!  After like, 5 seconds in the microwave, my jacket burst into flames and melted into this weird little pool of something that I can't get off of the bottom of the microwave."

We all stared at her for a moment, stunned into silence.

"When I went to housing to report my destroyed university owned microwave, they were speechless.  They told me I was the only person ever to have set fire to a fleece jacket in my microwave."

One of the fathers in our group looked up and said in a very deep voice: "I certainly hope you're not the standard  representative of this school."

"Why does everyone keep asking me that question?"  She wondered aloud.

Why, indeed.  A fleece jacket in the microwave....

Stocking Up on Essentials

One of our grocery stores is going out of business.   I've been stopping by daily, picking up staples that won't go bad.  It's been an interesting study in human nature.

Husband and I have been picking up Oil, Quinoa, Beans, Rice, Gluten Free Flour, and Gluten Free Pasta.  Oh, and cat litter and cat toys.    Yeah, we live life on the edge, let me tell you.  Three grown children and these two Empty Nesters really know how to party!

But the most fascinating thing for me to see has been what has been snatched off the shelves.
1) Frozen Pizza
2) Chips
3) Sodas
4) Boxed Mixes - (hamburger helper, tuna helper, cake mixes, etc.)
5) Boxed Cereal
6) Ice Cream
7) Frozen Pizza
8) Toilet Paper

It's an interesting list, isn't it?

I stopped by yesterday after work to pick up another box of cat litter, some Grape Seed Oil, and a bottle of my favorite shampoo.  I used the self check out and looked over at the check out next to me, where a cashier was checking out somebody.  I have to admit, I stopped to watch.  What I was seeing was kind of like a train wreck.

She had eight carts full of stuff that she was checking out.  One was full of nothing but chicken.  (By the way, there are signs all over the meat case that the fresh meat is NOT on the 30% off that the rest of the store is on.)  One cart was full of ice cream.  One was full of frozen meals.  That's 3 carts so far.  There was a cart of Cereal.  A cart of lunch meat.  I saw a cart of paper products - toilet paper, paper plates, and napkins.  I didn't get a really good glance at the last carts of stuff.  I didn't want my fascination to be too obvious.  I heard her telling the cashier that she never had done anything like this before, but that "the deals were just too good to pass up".

The one thing that hit me as I was watching her check out her stuff was that if she had never done anything like this before, then did she have the freezer space to hold that much food?  If she doesn't, then what was she going to do with all of the ice cream and frozen dinners?

Anyway, husband and I are still picking up staples a couple of items at a time.  Since it is just the two of us at home we don't need to stock up on the types of things we would purchase if we still had kids living at home.  (Hello, weird grains we've always wanted to try!)

Have you ever had a grocery store near you go out of business?  What kinds of things do you pick up when the discounts are big?

A Little Vacation

The blog was silent for a couple of weeks.  Husband and I both got a few days off of work, so we were out enjoying life, friends, and family.

We spent a day out at the beach. 
We saw a couple of movies.
We went up to Pennsylvania to see our oldest child.
We went into Washington DC for July 4th.  (Are you ever really too old for fireworks?)
We had friends over for dinner a couple of times.
We went down to Annapolis.

AND.... we cleaned some big stuff out the house.


Not only did we get another couple of boxes out to Goodwill, we got the other very large freezer that our in-laws left here out of the basement.  That freezer was over 30 years old.  Let me tell you, when we finally emptied that freezer and unplugged it earlier this year, we had $30/month come off of our electric bill.  We got 9 pieces of furniture out of the basement.  Yes, you read that right - NINE.  We're talking about  3 dressers that people gave to us and my very sweet husband couldn't say "no" to.  3 sets of the small 2 drawer metal filing cabinets.  One desk that one of the kids brought home from school and then decided that he didn't want to take it with him when he moved out.  AND - two twin beds left the premises.  Many thanks to the Habitat ReStore for taking everything.  While they don't pick up from out in the boondocks where we live, they were happy to take everything from us once we got it there.

And last but not least - we donated the old van.  Cancelled the insurance.  Returned the plates. 

It was a fantastic, relaxing, and productive staycation!  Now it's back to work!

They're Made to Absorb

I originally published this post on July 7, 2016.  Enjoy this walk down memory lane!  

 Daughter worked the register for a full shift on Saturday. I met her in the parking lot with one of those wonderful cold drinks from Starbucks when she finished. A Very Berry Hibiscus Refresher.  She's always so thirsty when she gets off work, I knew it would be appreciated. 

While I was waiting for her to finish, I had been shopping for various necessities, soap, toothpaste, deodorant, Kotex pads. 

On our way home, daughter was reluctant to drink anything for fear that she'd spill, and the bright red liquid on my tan car seats would make a huge mess. 

"Don't worry, we're stopped at a light", was my rather stupid response. 

She drank a quick sip, went to put the cup back in the cup holder when tragedy struck! The lid popped off and the bright red liquid went everywhere. Undeterred, she started grabbing receipts to sop up liquid while I looked for a safe place to pull over. 

I pulled into a parking lot, and daughter was out of her seat before I had the car completely stopped. She reached into the bag in the back, pulled out the package of Kotex, unwrapped a single pad, pulled the sticky strip off the back and attached it to the palm of her hand. 

That was a genius move!  All of the liquid was quickly absorbed into the pad. You can't even tell there was a spill of bright red on upholstery!

I tell you, from now on I'm carrying a few extra pads in the glove compartment for the next time I spill something. I know it's going to happen. They really are designed to absorb!  (Quick thinking young lady!)

2018 Resolutions - July Update

I love keeping track of my resolutions on my blog!  It ensures that I actually keep my resolutions!
Who knew that keeping my resolutions would be as easy as announcing them publicly?

I've been working at it.  I don't know that I'll meet all of my resolutions, but it sure is fun to try!

1) Participate in the NoSpenduary Challenge
No Spenduary helped to pay for the unexpected trip to Australia.  I'm not currently in a "no spend" mode - but I am actively saving money to pay to replace the roof on the house this fall.

2) 40 bags in 40 days
Well, this didn't work out during Lent.  I'm still working on getting boxes and bags out of the house.  Husband has been on a mission trip the last week in June, so I've actually gotten a lot of stuff out of the house this month! 

10 bags/boxes at the end of May
  7   bags/boxes in June

 17    Total Boxes/Bags at the end of June.  Just 23 more to go!  I hope I get this done by the end of the year!

3) Get Away With my Husband - TWICE
        1) Australia
        2) Where next?

4) Get One Big Debt Paid Off This Year
Working on paying off the Civic

5) Finish Daughter's and Husband's Quilts
Once again, no progress on this.  I hope to pull out the sewing machine, suck it up, and finish husbands quilt this month.  No excuses.  Just do it!

6) Get Out to Visit Middle Child this Year
HOORAY!!!!  We spent a long weekend with him over Memorial Day!  The entire family! 
HOORAY!!!!  I'd like to think I'll get out to see him one more time this year.  Maybe we'll make it for Thanksgiving?  I'm not sure - daughter is still in college, and her school tends to run classes through Wednesday.  We've got time on this one.

7) Replace the Roof on the House this Fall
 Working on this one!  The dream is to have enough cash to not only replace the roof, but also the gutters, and maybe add a front porch.  That's do-able, right? 

8) Exercise Most Days During the Week.
I've done it!  I'm at 4 days a week now!  PLUS -  I am getting over there at 5:45 am now.  Holy cow! What a great start to my day!  (It's a really early start, but it's a start!)

9) Make some of my Christmas Gifts this Year
I need to get moving on this one.  What do I get kids who are grown and living on their own?  The boys are going to be a problem...  Maybe a sweater?  It's a lofty sounding goal....

10) Cut my Grocery Budget to $250/month
 Well, I've stopped keeping track. I'm giving up on this one.
I honestly don't have the time to keep track of everything I spend at the grocery store.  

11) Turn my yarn and fabric stash into something more... but what?
Graduation present for daughter's boyfriend.
Baby Blanket for a Co-Worker
Turned a spool of tulle and blingy sparkles into a Fascinator for the Royal Wedding.


I'm currently working on a shrug for myself with yarn that I purchased for that purpose 4 years ago.  It's a beautiful, sea green and blue yarn.  I've found a wonderful lacy vest pattern that I purchased online.


12) Take One Item Off my Bucket List
 I did it!  And it was a big one!  I went to Australia with my husband!

13) Have One Media Free Day per Week
Not been a problem.
 
14) Visit 12 Libraries I Have Never Been to Before

Laurel Public Library

Lawrence Public Library Truman Library and Museum
New South Wales Library
Central Rappahannock Regional Library Porter Branch

Laurel Public Library
Elkridge Public Library

I have a couple of professional goals I want to meet, too.  I'm not going to list them here, but they're in the back of my mind!


Professional Goals

1) PG #1

I had an article published! 

2) PG #2

Charm Kitty Cafe

Have you heard about Cat Cafe's? 

They are little cafe's with adoptable cats from the Humane Society.  The cafe doesn't really serve food (because of the cat hair).  They will have tea or coffee, and they might have cookies or muffins that you can order.   You can then imbibe while you bond with the kitties.  If you wish, you can adopt one of the kitties and give it a forever home.

Earlier this spring, daughter and I spent an afternoon with the cats at Charm Kitty Cafe.
We each had a cookie, and we sat and did some work while the kitties roamed around, climbed over our keyboards, ignored us, and looked very regal.  We played with the ones that let us, and we admired the ones who were too important to let us get near them!

One thing to note, though.  Almost every cat cafe that I know of - the seating is very limited, and reservations are required.   You will pay for your time in the cafe.  The money goes to support the cats.  The amount of time you get for your reservation varies by the cafe that you visit.

I took a few pictures of the residents of Charm Kitty Cafe while we were there.  I'm certain all of these little fluff balls have been adopted.  But I know they have new little fluff balls searching for their forever homes!

Greeter at the front desk.

This one really likes my purse!

A crate, bolted high on the wall - and a shy friend looking down.

Hiding under a bench.

If I didn't already have 2 cats at home, this one would have come home with me.

Moving from my purse onto my shawl.

And my phone....

He really liked my phone.  He didn't like pats, though.

Sushi Go

We found this awesomely fun game when we were out visiting middle child.  We played multiple rounds, laughed a lot, and can't wait to play again.  The nice thing about this game is that up to 5 people can play.

In a nutshell - you get a stack of cards.  You pull out one card, and then once everyone has pulled their card - you pass your stack to the person next to you and pull a card from the next stack.

Think of this as an awesome variation on Yahtzee!

Each round goes quickly.  Your best laid strategies will just not work the way you think they will.  And just when you think all is lost - bam!  The game is over and you did better than you thought!

If you're looking for a fun family game to take on vacation with you this summer, this would be the one to take!

Disclosure Notice- This post contains Affiliate Links.  I received no compensation for posting this review.  My son brought it over one night for us to play, and I wanted to share it with you!

Elkridge Public Library

Howard County Public Library opened a new branch a few months back.  I finally got an opportunity to stop by and visit this wonderful new branch.  This new building is located on the same property that housed the previous Elkridge Branch, but it has been beautifully updated!

Howard County has always done a marvelous job of keeping their branches updated and current with the most modern resources and technology.  This branch has something new and exciting - a tool library.  You can check out tools, take them home and use them for the full checkout period and then return them.  Talk about a huge money saving device that benefits the community!

The Elkridge Library is located just off of Route 1 in Elkridge.

As always, I post pictures without people's faces.  As always, I struggle to get enough pictures without people's faces.  For the middle of a weekday afternoon, this place was absolutely packed.   I took as many pictures as I could to get a good idea of what the branch looks like, and I posted what reflects the branch without posting pictures of people's faces.  

Front Entry

The site plan for the library.  I like the dedicated wetlands and green space.

This is the tool library.  I really like that it's separate from the rest of the building.

Library entrance. It's got a very sleek, modern feel to it.

I'm a big fan of the bubble wall along the side!

Look at all of those gorgeous books!

A view of the children's desk.

A view down the side of the children's section towards the teen section.

Study tables.

The cafe area at the very front - away from the stacks!

Howard County Public Library Elkridge Branch Website: https://hclibrary.org/locations/elkridge-branch/